Wednesday, December 28, 2022

Letter of Recommendation - Not your Regular LOR but recommend to fall in love!!!

This is a LOR for a friend who doubts himself. He loves someone, but it is sickening to see him wait. Hence, I wrote a LOR for his girl with a twist. If you like it, go - comment.

I highly recommend one of my best friends for you to evaluate, analyze and fall in love with. This isn’t coming out of ulterior motives, but by witnessing the insane love, he feels for you. Of course, you wouldn’t have any idea because you are far away, and he ensures I listen to his woes and worries daily. This isn’t an application but a glowing recommendation of the pros and cons of falling in love with my friend. As theysay, positives come first.

He is intense – like he gives 100%. Zero distractions. So you can be assured that once you say YES, he wouldn’t deviate. Even if it means he is sitting in a room full of hotties and babes. He would think of you and smile.

He is dedicated – like seriously, it is 2023. People are selfish and marking a niche for themselves. Who has time to sit with family, listen to nonsense, or make unlimited hospital tours? It is insane how he takes life with a pinch of salt and continues working. I am sure he never argued with his parents about the sacrificed dreams and hopes. My daughter does that – she is 17 (rolling eye smiley).

He is honest, like, “this is who I am, honest.” He cannot sugarcoat things. Don’t expect him to boost your spirits unnecessarily. He wouldn’t do that, but he is the go-to person if you ever need someone to sit in silence. He wouldn’t advise you on how evil life is and how unfair it is. He will sit in silence till you feel, embrace what you have been through, and make peace with it.

He goes to church almost every Sunday – I wouldn’t do that myself. It’s not like religion and all. He is more of a spiritual person (I think so). Maybe he derives his strength from the Lord and seeks love and patience from his form.

He loves you intensely – for a person who never is vulnerable about his feelings, he has shared his doubts and fears with me. Of course, that makes me an awesome Friend, but that’s not the point. The point is he is constantly thinking of you and talking about you. When there is Tinder and Bumble, he waits for you to say YES, and that’s all that matters in the end. Doesn’t it?

Let's go to the Cons:

He is an Ass – he doesn’t know how to express himself. So you will have to learn to decipher the meaning of his smile, sigh, and expressions. Hell, he gives one-word answers to essay questions. I wonder how he cleared his engineering, given that one must write so much.

He is dedicated – like nothing can distract him from something he is doing. But you, my girl, are an exception. He will make time for you!

So, you see, he is all yours to evaluate. He was a laser-focused cold mother fucker before you ruined him (his words, not mine). Now, you know the impact you have on him. As a dear friend, I wholeheartedly recommend him to you, for all we have is one life, and let’s not waste overthinking and overanalyzing. Because I know he shall keep you happy and love you for the rest of his life.

Signing off A Dear Friend.